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Impossible to penetrate!

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Question - (31 October 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 31 October 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi well im 18 and i have tried to hold off sex with my bf for almost a year now and my bf and i have decided itz time to give it a try... he tried to finger me but it hurt but i thought it was normal so i just went with it. Then he tried to penetrate me but it wouldnt go in at all, he ripped me right away so we tried 2 days later and he had to force his finger and only his pinky could fit... i would like to know if itz normal or am i too tight? i dont know if there is something wrong with me.. so i would like to know wat i could do to make things alittle more easier for the both of us?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2010):

Your may need more foreplay or you may be having involutarily muscle clamping called vaginismus. Check this site: http://www.vaginismus.com/

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A female reader, syrop  Mauritius +, writes (31 October 2010):

there's nothing wrong with you. you are just too tights. he has to apply more force. and make sure you are well-aroused when you are having intercourse as this help the penis to slide inside much easier

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