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writes:I'm not perfect, I know I'm a repetitive person.But not this bad.I just realized, me and my boyfriend essentially have the same conversation, with minor variations, every night!I love talking to him (online, cant call or anything), but I want to get this dealt with before it becomes unbearable.Like all my little worries, I come to my fellow aunts and uncles, because you guys are good at this, and I value your opinions.So how should I go about making our conversations less repetitive?I remember, in the beginning, we always used to ask each other a bunch of questions to know more about the other, but now we dont really do that, since we know a whole lot more about each other.... Reply to this Question
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reader, Shadow Rose +, writes (14 March 2012):
Shadow Rose is verified as being by the original poster of the question We have similar interests, but I know we've already talked about a lot of them.
A lot of stuff it's like "Oh, I beat Portal 2!" And then there's nothing else to say after we talk about that.
I guess we're boring when talking online.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2012): Now I come to think of it my boyfriend and I usually start our telephone conversations the same every night. He always asks what I have eaten during the day and whether I had a good day at work etc. Sometimes I tell him about a book I am reading or a documentary we have watched or the latest soap storyline! Do you have similar interests that you could talk about? Sometimes my boyfriend and I have have long conversations about morals which is always good because I really like hearing a different point of view.
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reader, Shadow Rose +, writes (14 March 2012):
Shadow Rose is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for the advice. Sometimes we do talk sexy, but it's not too often, and it's fairly non-repetitive, since we're still virgins, so there's not much to talk about besides what we want to do to each other our first time xD
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2012): try to talk about something fantasy about to your each other to be different. something sexy
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