A
female
age
51-59,
*issed Connection
writes:I have been with my husband for 12 years and things have been strained for a few of them. I know that I love him, but I just do not think I am in love with him anymore. And I know that I am not happy. To add to this problem, I recently came in contact with an old friend who has been my life long love. Nothing has happened between us, because neither one of us want to hurt anyone. I just feel torn inside not being able to be with the one I love. And he says he hates me for loving me. What am I to do? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Missed Connection +, writes (30 January 2009):
Missed Connection is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThat we were in tune with each other again (mentally and physically). And that it didn't feel like we are more roommates rather than husband and wife. Things have become quite stale mentally and physically.
A
female
reader, Missed Connection +, writes (30 January 2009):
Missed Connection is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have threatened once and also followed through once. He begs and pleads and I reluctantly come back to try for the sake of our marriage and our kids. He does well for a while and then things just go right back the way they were. He is not a bad person...I am just not feeling what I should for a long time now. And I feel like a horrible person for it too.
...............................
A
female
reader, Missed Connection +, writes (30 January 2009):
Missed Connection is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo, the old friend just came into the picture a couple months ago and has nothing to do with it. Although, he makes it harder. My old friend loves me enough to respect my situation and my marital status. I have tried talking to my husband about our problems, but he doesn't relate.
...............................
|
