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writes: theres this girl in my school and im sure i love her but im too scared to ask her out and before i asked her out on a date but i had to cancell and now im convinced that ive blowen my chances with her Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2008): I understand your problem, Here one thing you can do. Ask her if she wants to go to the cinema, but only as friends. You can do this occasionaly and bring more friends (2 maybe) to tag along, and you can allow her to bring friends with her also. Once you feel you are ready simply ask if you wanted to go out together. (just the two of you,with no friends ), unless she wants to bring some along. If she says yes then woo! hoo! good for you! However, if she says no, simply say that maybe some other time. Confidence in my dictionary, is something girls look for in a guy. And no worries, I'm sure that she will understand and be very complemented that you would like to try again.Hope this Helps
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (11 February 2008):
 Are you scared of girls? So just invite her out and if she rejects you , you can try again another day. One day she will accept your invitations.
Take any rejections in your stride . Treat it like a mosquito bite and move on.
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