| A ,
anonymous
writes: Dear Cupid, I'm having problems in my relationship. I have been with my boyfriend now for 6 months and we have had our arguments but we are both in love with each other. But the problem is I have lied to him twice, the first time he knows about but the second he doesn't but if I tell him I know he will probably break up with me but I can't lose him I love him too much. What do I do? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, joonie +, writes (12 April 2005):
i've got an idea!!! STOP LYING TO HIM!!! there is NO reason good enough to lie in a relationship...guaranteed to break you up eventually...you are lying to YOURSELF if you feel justified in telling ANY lie...open communication is the only way to deal with things...lying puts up walls, destroys intimacy, AND your relationship...trust me on this one...unless you think I'M lying???
A
reader, lildev666 +, writes (10 April 2005):
Relationships are mostly based on trust and love, if y our partner loves and trusts you then he will respect you being honest with him. It doesnt help that you have already lied but I am sure that if you can work it out if you are bot mature adults
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2005): Tell him and if he is in love with you then he won`t care but if he does dump you there are more fish in the sea.
...............................
|
