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writes:Hi,I am trying to plan a romantic dinner for myself and my boyfriend. We have been dating for a while and I think a special evening is in order. Perhaps you can give me advice about planning this romantic evening. I am thinking about cooking something for him at my home. It would be more romantic as it would be just the two of us. Any advice about what I should make and wear that would be sexy? Do you think that it would be romantic for him if I had soft music playing in the background and candles lit? What can I do to make the preparations look sexy? What advice would you have for our eating time to be sexy? Should this involve me feeding him? Can/should kissing be involved? Maybe we will have each other for dessert. What advice would you have in regards to that? Thanks for your time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2007): How thoughtful of you! I'm sure he will love it. First make the house smell REALLY good. Spray it with his favorite perfume of yours. And wear something RED that shows lots of cleavage and is fitted. And buy flowers for the house. My favorite flowers are 'bird of paradise.' He will love those. And for food get fresh oysters. They are natural aphrodisiacs. And they are delicious. If you want more variety you could make up some tapas, shrimp cocktail, tuna tartare?? And chocolate fondue for dessert. And since this is a celebration, for drinks you should pop open a bottle of bubbly. Get Dom Perignon. If you want to make cocktails with it you can make delicious bellinis or mimosas. In terms of music I would throw on jack johnson, and/or nouvelle vague, tortoise, nina simone, hope sandoval, sade, chris isaac?? Make sure it is stuff you know he likes too. And put a couple of totally romantic songs in there for when the sex is over and you both are cuddling looking into each others eyes...sophie b. hawkins 'damn i wish I was your lover.' AND I HOPE YOU HAVE THE BEST TIME!!! good luck!
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reader, pgissyd  +, writes (18 November 2007):
 Lots of long vegies and dips ;), nothing too heavy food wise or he will be too full after for anything naughty. candles are always a plus, also make sure the whole house smells good, perhaps run round the house just before he arrives squirting a little of your fav purfume into each room. soft lighting and gentle music are good ideas, but dont make it dark, just ambient.
Clothes, the less the better, regardless of your figure, stockings, high heals and an apron never fail to make an impression. thats it mind you, no undies or anything ok. If your not too adventurous with buffets, then a decent spag bol always impresses. folloewd by a tin of squirty ream (not for the table...)
Have fun xxx
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