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writes:I am a 13 year old boy and i find guys attractive. but i dont want to. i want to be straight. though i cant figure out whether im gay or straight because one day i feel like im gay. then another i feel straight and then like im thinking am i bi? ): this bothers me alot i really want to have a family with a beautiful woman but i just have a fetish for guys some days and im just not sure whether im gay or straight this is like a big stress in my life and i need some one to help ): i cant talk to my parents about this because i feel like they'll hate me after i talk to them about it or like they'll never look at my the same way they did before i talked to them about it. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you everyone for talking to me it really helps(:
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reader, jrunlucky +, writes (8 August 2010):
 it could be a stage. a lot of people have a stage like that. the question lies with whether or not you can see yourself doing it with a guy.
being bi isnt as bad as you think. many girls like the thought i dudes making out and stuff. you live in america so it's not like you'll be ostracized from the ladies.
if your ashamed of liking guys then maybe it's just that the guy looks really handsome and you admire him for it or you like his personality. if your ashamed of liking them than that probably means you dont think of them that way. your still young so you have time to figure it all out.
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reader, Ross Baker +, writes (7 August 2010):
 don't let this stress you out. to me, it seems like you are bi. but u may just be going through a stage. if you don"t want to be gay, then don't be dude. choose which one you like and stick to it. which one makes u more happy? a guy or a girl?
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reader, Ross Baker +, writes (7 August 2010):
don't let this stress you out. to me, it seems like you are bi. but u may just be going through a stage. if you don"t want to be gay, then don't be dude. choose which one you like and stick to it. which one makes u more happy? a guy or a girl?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2010): You will just be starting to hit puberty which is a difficult time for most young people and almost everybody at this time is unsure about some aspect of their lives wether that be physicality, emotions, friendships, relationships or of course sexuality. But i don't think there is any need to anounce yourself as gay, bi or straight at the moment as you may regret it in a few years time when you have matured and your hormones have settled down. Hope this helps.
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