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I'm not sure if I'm attracted to him

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Question - (4 February 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 4 February 2009)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I started hanging out with these two girls and they introduced me to their guy friend. We all started to hang out a lot and I think he started to like me because of the way he looks at me and talks to me. He is funny and nice but physically not my type. He is kind of short, not that cute (average looking) and doesn't have the nicest teeth. I don't know if I like him or not. When i think about him i smile and stuff but it's not like when i think of this other guy(i get happy and butterflies). So i'm not really sure if i like him or not. ughhh...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2009):

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thanks so much everyone

the only thing i forgot to write was that i can't get him out of my thoughts.

It's weird...if i like someone i usually know right away...

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A female reader, [AqUCHi] United States +, writes (4 February 2009):

looks don't matter soo.... Think harder and try to know him better....so u could find out if u like him or not .... Ask him if he likes you and if YES.... Make up ur mind and go for IT.... GOOD LUCK....

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A female reader, saoirse United States +, writes (4 February 2009):

saoirse agony aunt

It's always nice to have people that make you smile, but remember that can just be a sign of being good friends with someone. Don't feel bad if you aren't attracted to him and he isn't your type, that's life! Just don't do anything that would lead him on such as flirting with him. If he asks you out just tell him that you think he's a really great guy but you just don't think you two are each others types, but that you really value him as a friend.

Then again, give yourself time to know him, and maybe you will like him! Sometimes, we have our own expectations that we think people should meet but in the process we miss out on a lot of really great people.

But remember that you're young! So take your time getting to know people! That's where all the fun is :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2009):

all i can tell you is to listen to your heart. It'll tell you if you like him as a friend or more.

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