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writes:My husband and i have been married for 27 years and our boys have now flown the nest. you'd think we would be having a ball wouldnt you? Wrong! He is, he goes away with his mates skiing every january, hes had a few weekends away, stag weekends etc. he has a busy social calender and i am not part of it. he has a password for everything, like his phone, computer. his friends invite us to social events but he always finds an excuse to go on his own. i cant take it anymore, i feel im missing out on a lot of things out there. we argued about it tonite and he turned round and said its not his fault ive got no friends. please someone give me some advice. x
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reader, Ricemonster  +, writes (20 October 2010):
 That sort of paranoia Marymomnwife is suggesting is super unhealthy. Take many of my friends for example, they go out every now and then without their wives. I have always been the one to 'look out' for them and never have they cheated on their wives. Their reasoning to leave their wives at home? Simple: they want some time to themselves. They see their wives every day and cater to their needs and wants accordingly. Some time to themselves is not a bad thing. In fact, it can help the relationship.Of course, you have to take what I said here within context. As for what he said, he was insensitive and an ass. I would smack him upside his head for saying that to you, if I was a friend of his. However, he does mention something worth noting. That is: you need friends of your own. I agree that you two should go to some social gatherings together, but at the same time, you two should also have social gatherings apart.
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reader, marymomnwife  +, writes (20 October 2010):
it really sounds like a life crises with him. u might want 2 think about a private investigator. he might b cheating
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