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writes:should i do what i want? i have been seeing this boy for about three months and am not aloud to be with him as he is no angel should i do what i want and get into trouble for seeing him or not see him at all???? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2007): what i didnt say in that is that i really do love him even tho i am young! my parents dont like him because he is bad bt they dont no him like i do they just go by what they hear. i am scared to say to them because they will go of the head. but then i wouldnt be lyeing to them so any 1 got any ideas on what to say to them??? please help i feel sick just thinking about it!!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2007): What do you think is the right thing to do, hun? Personally, I strongly encourage you to make good choices. This is crucial for a young teen to do at your age. By doing this it shows your family, that you can always be trusted and you respect their rules. And life is much easier when you respect your parent's, even though sometimes you don't always like thir rules. Just remember, one earns trust and privileges in a family. If you were to sneak out and see this fellow behind your parent's back, what is that behavior telling them. What will be the long term consequences? Your parents will be deeply concerned that they have a teen daughter who can't be trusted because she lied about seeing a young fellow she wasn't supposed to see. Believe me..if you get caught your parents will keep you on a tight leash. Don't do it..you will have many bf's in your future but family unity and trust is values and priceless. If you lose that, you will have a rough road ahead because your parents will not trust you, until you have worked hard to earn it back. Always be honest, especially with your family. Your parents love you and they see you making a bad choice. They want to protect you..guide you. This young man is 'not' worth the big wedge that could occur in your family if you were sneak off and see him behind your parent's back. As I said, trust is earned and once it's earned, it's much easier to preserve than it is to regain, once it's lost.
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