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51-59,
anonymous
writes: I am married but I have been seeing another man for a year and three months I tried to break it off several times, but we end up calling each other again I am trying to do the right thing and stay with my husband of 23 yrs but its getting harder every day, my husband knows how I feel about this man and who he is I have told him almost everything, he wants me to stay home with him and get over it but its easier said then done what should I do? is there a way to get over this other man and forget him? please help... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2006): I am a man who has been in the same position as your husband, and 6 months after my wife ended her affair I am still struggling to come to terms with it. I have read many articles and books on the subject and should not have been surprised to find that such situations are common. They usually involve women aged between 35 and 55 and often no sexual relationship is involved.The male 'lover' is usually in a similar age group, prey on women of that age group in the hope of a sexual relationship. They see it as a challenge and often have bets with workmates on the outcome. The stories they tell are always similar and amazingly sometimes even varbatum identical.At the end of the day your husband of 23 years loves you. Your lover may say he does but he hasn't proved it for 23 years. For both of your sakes walk away from your lover now and have no further contact with him. He doesn't even deserve an appology or explanation. What sort of man has an affair with another mans wife, and do you really want such a person ?
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