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writes:How can you stop falling in love? I,m dating a guy who does NOT want a relationship. I love dating him and I,m starting to fall in love with him. I really need help with this one I,m leading myself to heartbreak what can I do???? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2011): You're starting to fall for him, so naturally you're going to want to get closer, its part of human nature, we are programmed to meet a life partner, settle down and all the rest. Its perfectly normal for you to want this, he doesn't so Id say he's the one with the issues.
Now put it this way do you really want to take on with someone who has issues?! Whatever they maybe his reasons for not wanting a relationship complicate things and nobody needs that, love should be a natural process, a happy experience, where the other person feels the same and wants the same things. He obviously does not and why should you settle for second best, trust me you'll only get hurt
My advice is stop dating him, texting him, calling him whatever. Move on and find somebody who does want the same things in life as you, someone you will be compatible with.
Good Luck.x
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (1 October 2011):
 When I find a lovely girl who I seem to be falling in love with.... BUT, I know that "love" is ill-fated..... I put my hand on the window frame of my car door, then SLAM the door.... REALLY HARD!!!!! That seems to startle me back to sensibility.... I'm NOT recommending that you do the same.... I'm "just saying"......
Good luck.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2011): All you can do is stop seeing him. He does not want a relationship with you and that's all you need to know to move on!
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