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writes: i have a boyfriend and we are extremely happy i enjoy sex and feel so close to him. However, these past weeks i never feel like makiing love anymore or giving him any pleasure without a push. It is like i just cant be bothered. this has happened with other partners in the past. What is wrong with me????? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2006): In addition to counseling that the previous responder suggested, perhaps a medical exam is in order as well? For example, your post does not tell us if you have recently begun a new medication that may have sexual side effects. Have there been new life stressors at play (e.g., change in work schedule, starting new classes at school, conflict somewhere else in your life, etc.)? It may be as simple as reviewing the last several months to determine if there have been any changes in your life that may be contributing to this change in your sex drive. Good luck to you and I hope the bedsheets are heated up again soon for you. :-)***
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2006): Sounds like it is an issue that comes from within you. I say it is time to seek out individual therapy to root out this problem that crops up so that you begin to push away your partners. You create this beginnings of a breakdown and may be a self punishment; you may think you are undeserving of happiness and love or you may have witnessed this from your parents and think this is the way it should be. It isn't btw.
Seek some counseling so that you can realize that you do deserve to be loved and be happy with someone you would like to love and care for.
*hugs*
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