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anonymous
writes:After getting out of pretty destructive relationship with a guy last June, I face the prospect of having to see him pretty soon again. I thought I had gone far enough away, but I'm returning to where we met ( and he still is) in the next few months. We haven't spoken since the break up, but were forced to deal with each other in a professional context. I'm scared I'll have to do the same thing again.The real problem is that i'm still not over him. ahhh. what should I do? avoid him? confront it?
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (10 April 2011):
 Face it head on. You have grown, test it out. The flame may rekindle, if so make sure he's changed too. If not you may see him in a different light and be able to move on more easily.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2011): You say were in a distructive relationship with this guy? does that mean he abused you? if so You need to stand up to him now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2011): It seems you are still checking up on him and have your ear very much pressed to the grapevine regarding his whereabouts and possible chance encounters. You will get over him as soon as you move on and stop doing that.
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