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writes:where to start... well I liking this guy back in January, I've known him for a fairly long time as I went to school with him however we never really spoke until the December just gone. We starting speaking properly in January, however we didn't really know how we stood with each other as we never really spoke about our relationship status. From early March we have agreed on the title of 'seeing each other', for those that might not no what the terms of that is; we basically do everything a couple would do just without the label. It is usually the stage before you start dating... however I was having a conversation with him the other day and he stated that he doesn't ever label things. Which had me thinking that we will forever be in the 'seeing each other' stage, and im just not okay with that, however we are so good with each other... I hate to admit it but I can feel myself falling in love with him. I just don't know what to do, I know he has feelings for me etc. we are even going on holiday with each other this June... I just don't see how we can continue growing in our 'relationship' if we aren't moving forward? I really don't want to fall in love with him in this situation as it makes me so venerable... please help me, at this stage any advice is good advice!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2015): Look, there are a ton of reasons why someone is afraid to commit. Maybe they were hurt before and maybe the have seen relationships fail too often. Whatever the case may be, you have to make difficult decisions because they aren't capable. Only you know your own worth, and what you desire. The conversation will be incredibly difficult but necessary nonetheless. Have it and know where you stand. Would you rather continue to be "in love" and miserable or have a 3 hour talk that solves all your problems? Don't let anyone get away with taking anything away from you.
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