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writes:Hi, i really need some help i am in this relationship at the moment it is a bit complicated as we live apart from each other and have both been hurt. The other day i told him that i loved him, and he said to me that he might be falling in love with me as well, and then in the morning when we had to leave i asked him what we were going to do about the situation and he said to me that he wasnt falling in love with me.I am very confused about he feels and i dont want to get hurt again, but every time i ask him, he just ignores me.Someone please help me as i am unsure where i should go from here and what i should do now, whether to continue seeing him or stop seeing him. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2008): Maybe he needs more time to fall in love or to admit he has fallen in love. He doesn't want to get hurt again, but neither do you.
If you really do love him and you have had a good, happy relationship till now, then mayber you should give him a little longer, however, he does seem very immature ignoring you and playing around with your heart.
You should talk to him about what is going on and if he ignores you again then you have your answer. There's no point in being in a relationship where there is no communication.
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