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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I work in m-pesa. There's this frequent customer of mine who i have known for four months as a client and even gave him my phone number. One fine day he spilled the bin and claimed that he has feelings for me, in a way i believed him and i was so carried coz i felt the same. We'v chatted for two weeks and even planned dates twice with fails coz i felt like i was wrong of my feelings. I made it clear to him that wat i felt were rather infatuation.we at time txt each just to say hi. The problem is that a'v never dated and wat i feared is being heart broken kindly help with advice Reply to this Question
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reader, MSA  +, writes (27 July 2015):
 Unfortunately, no one will be able to avoid a broken heart at least once in their lifetime. A broken heart may not always mean that he will mistreat you, it can mean that you have a certain expectation and he can't meet it.
Love is a risk.. but without taking that risk, you will never feel that joy and happiness love brings.
Why not go out on that first date and get to know him outside of your work environment? Give it a chance.. you can always say no to a second date. But if you don't go out on this first date with him, you may have missed Mr. Right.
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