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writes:ok so im 15 about to be 16 and i dont know how to approach this... lately ive been getting a sexual attraction to my cousin (i know how it sounds you dont have to say im wierd or anything) so heres the story... back when i was about 12 ans she was 11 i remember me and her making out.. it was like a one time thing. ever since then we haven't done anything like that. but like a year ago every time i go to her house and i would sit down at the computer she would always sit on my lap and its not like shes only there for a sec she would sit there until i got up... I really want to let her know how im feeling but i dont know how to. and its not like i want to go up to her and say "LETS HAVE SEX!"... can you please help me??
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks man appreciate it
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reader, infamous +, writes (11 July 2009):
well next time your around her you could talk about the time when you two made out and see of what she thought about it. if she says "i dont know" then shes probably unsure of herself or uncomfortable about it so you probably shouldnt push it any further for a while. if she said she liked it or somhow hints around that she liked it then you should tell her how you fealt about it. if this does end up happening hopefully she'll realize that your interested in her. if she still dousnt realize it you could ask her what she thinks about you.what im trying to say is you want to see what she thinks about you and the situation that happened when you two were younger before you say anything about what you think about her. because you dont want to hint around you liking her before you know what she thinks of you because if she dousnt think of you anything more than just a cousin, you might wierd her out, ya know?so good luck to ya
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks any way of letting her know without actually saying it?
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reader, infamous +, writes (9 July 2009):
i had this sort of situation in my family but not with me. i was just a bystander. in my honest opinion you shouldnt tell her. when my cousin said he liked another cousin everyone pretty much freaked out and shunned him.
sorry if i sound like a downer but im just speaking from situations i have seen before.
however if it eats and tears away at your mind and is possibly making you go insane then yes do get if off your chest and tell her.
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