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writes:hi im needing help on a situation i have gotten myself into.i have been seing this girl now for a while and we have spent a lot of time together we have both have said we have feeling for each other and both said that its not love, but what i need help with is, i feel although i have fallen in love with her and i dont know if i should say something or not due to the fact she told me that someone told her they loved her and she didnt contact them or see them again. I dont want to loose her because i dont know what i should do. If i tell her i might loose her, but i dont think she feels the same.any help will be appreciated
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (16 June 2009):
 if she is cheating on her boyfriend with you....
then i don't think she actually wants a relationship with you.
i think she is just having you as her "fun" partner so to speak.
she just sleeps with you when her boyfriend is busy or he's not there or he's not willing that's why she won't go out with you because she doesn't really want you as a boyfriend she just likes the exciting relationship she's having with you both she's got a boyfriend but she's sleeping with another guy it's keeping her on her toes and its intense for her like will her boyfriend find out?
what will he do if he does find out? will he fight for her?
that kind of thing.
she says she's going to leave him for you... she's lying to be honest with you she's not going to leave him she's not planning on leaving him she's just keeping you sweet so you'll keep doing stuff with her as long as she is with him.
that's how i see it.
just be careful of her hun she's having her cake and she's eating it too... so be careful...
Hope this helps :)
pop me a message if you need anything :) x x x x x
good luck x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionupdate::
something that i should have mentioned is that she is cheating on her BF with me and says shes gonna break it of with him for me, she says shes going to do this tonight 15/06/2009
an other thing thats worrying me is that shes only after the one thing ...... there are nights where id like to watch a film but for some reason we never get through it.
sorry if i have posted these updates in the wrong way
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionupdate::
something that i should have mentioned is that she is cheating on her BF with me and says shes gonna break it of with him for me, she says shes going to do this tonight 15/06/2009
an other thing thats worrying me is that shes only after the one thing ...... there are nights where id like to watch a film but for some reason we never get through it.
sorry if i have posted these updates in the wrong way
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (12 June 2009):
you do need to tell her because how will you know if she never feels the same way back?
if you love her you tell her.
if she ends it then it's her loss at the end of the day.
these are your feelings even if she doesn't feel the same but wants to see where your relationship is going she should respect your feelings and not just dump you and that's it no contact at all.
you should just tell her how you feel otherwise you'll never know whether she feels the same way about you.
as i've said if she ends it then it's her loss but at least you'll know she isn't the one for you.
Hope this helps hun,
xxxxxxx good luck xxxxxxxxx
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