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writes: I had been with a guy for nearly two years and i was getting bored of him i found my self resenting him and him just clinging to me more, i like haveing my seperate time for my self and i made that clear but he become more verbally violent and sometimes physically nothing exterme just grabing onto me and bruising me which is not normal for him i broke up with him ( it was going to happen anyway i was leaveing for spain for school for a year) but now that im here i find myself wanting him back what should i do i dont want to put myself in that situation again and how can i recongize the disfuction sooner
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reader, jimrich  +, writes (13 September 2010):
re: how can i recongize the disfuction sooner
... Google: Codependency
What you are writing about is a dependency issue in which you are willing to put up with any kind of behavior rather than be (fearfully or sadly) alone and on your own.
Codependency information will teach you how to be confident, independent and create your own happiness rather than rely on others or be a NEEDY/victim.
If codependency bothers you, google: self confidence and learn how to be free and less NEEDY.
good luck
Jim
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