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writes:I'm 25 years old and can safely say I've never been in love. It really bothers me that I'm probably the oldest woman in the world who doesn't know what love is. I've been in a lot of relationships but I've never at any point loved anyone, I pray that one day God sends someone my way but I've even given up on that, I've also been on a few dating sites but no one is ever interested I'm not the prettiest but I don't think I'm that ugly, what's wrong with me why no one wants to be with me. Reply to this Question |
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reader, q1605  +, writes (3 April 2008):
 Love is to place your happiness in the happiness of another. There is a only one sort of love, but there are a thousand copies. Love gives of itself; it is not bought and if there is anything better than to be loved it is loving. That said, love is an affliction. Love is the delusion that one man or woman differs from another. And its most definitely overrated. At 25 enjoy the piece of mind while you can. Because while you are looking steadfastly for it and coming up empty handed. The little bastard will sneak in the back way and be waiting to conk you on the head when you have given up all hope of finding it. You will find yourself thinking about some guy who is remarkable only in the sense that he has gotten in your head and its all you think about and you will spend a bit of time wondering is this love.? Could this be it. Am I finally in love? I think about this man from the moment I wake up until I friggin go to sleep. If you could get to sleep. And you will be so miserable with the disruption this guy brings to your life that you will be convinced you need medical help. And you will be with friends or at work and find yourself in the middle of some absent minded rant about this guy about how he is all you think about and how he makes you want to pull your hair out at the same time he just looks so adorable and look up and the folks around you will be all looking at you with a devilish grin on their faces and one will say------- is in love and you will know it too. As for me .. you can keep it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008): Sounds like an issue from the past that holds you back today. Been hurt, ridiculed or something in the past. It sounds like your defenses are up, and the way you express yourself, everyone sees this in you.
Ask close friends to give you an assessment.
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