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anonymous
writes:I don't want to get into detail but my ex left me because my penis was apparently too small for her, and I guess she told her friends because now it's gotten out that I have a small penis...A lot of girls ridicule me for it and after a while it's really hurtful.My penis is about 4 inches long and 4 inches in girth when erect so yeah, it 's small -and- thin in case you were wondering. Not to mention it curves upwards a bit so not only do I worry because it's small, I'm worried because it looks weird also...Before though, I used to believe what other people had told me; that it was what you did, not the size, that mattered. I always thought to try my best to make sure that whomever I'm with is happy, but I feel like that's not good enough anymore.I just wanna know from other girls...Would you be turned off if your boyfriend has a small penis? Would you dump him because he has a small penis? Do most girls feel this way about penis size in general?Why do girls ridicule guys with small penises?And another thing, if a girl says "size doesn't matter, It's fine don't worry," does she honestly mean it or is she just saying that to not hurt your feelings?Be 100% completely honest, okay please? Don't say stuff just to make me feel better...
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2010): To be honest it does matter.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2010): Im sorry man. That kind of joking is so far "below the belt". It sucks if they were being honest and it sucks if they were lying. Hearing one little bad comment about his penis can make a guy insecure about it for years and years.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2010): I agree with the other aunts...these women are totally cruel and as you get older, you won't have to deal with this bullshit ;) Your penis doesn't sound abnormally small and I would think it is plenty sufficient to please a woman, just learn other ways to get a woman to orgasm as well and you'll have no problem keeping a woman. Sometimes, mind-blowing sex has little to do with penetration.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2010): Its nice to see that the ladies above respect a man with a small penis. Not all of us are well-endowed but it doesnt disqualify us as good lovers. A woman dumping a man for having a small penis would be wrong. What if he slapped her in the face with a remark about her "maybe having too large a vaginal opening?" It would suck, right? Thanks to the ladies who said they dont mind a "smaller" guy. You ladies are awesome!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2010): I wouldn't dump a guy with a small penis if he knew how to use it.Just brush up on the other sexual acts and penis size won't matter.
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