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male
age
10-12,
anonymous
writes: I think I am falling for a good friend. They don't know I feel this way but I know they don't feel the same way. I don't want to tell them because it could ruin our relationship as friends and she will proberbly shoot me down. I don't know what to do and it's annoying me so much. usually when I like someone I can talk to them but I never know what to say when I'm around her. I would prefer to have her as a friend then nothing at all but I want us to be much more. What could I possibly do? Reply to this Question |
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male
reader, csh1983  +, writes (8 October 2007):
 hi
i was in same thing , i did fancy one of my female friend and did got closer but we step fear thn it would ruin friendship
so for u
i think u should stay as good friend and dnt spoil it cuase u may lose her forever if it ruin friendship
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female
reader, rachy-baby-helps +, writes (8 October 2007):
 If you don't think that she feels the same, then don't say anything, but let her get to know you as if you were her boyfriend (not physical).
Try pretending that she is someone else, this could enable you to talk more freely.
Just act like yoursel and if she likes you, there will be some signs:
more eye contact
standing closer to you
talking abot more personal things
Good Luck :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2007): I've had a similar situation involving a friend and although the time has come and gone, I do regret it.
While there is much to be said for just sticking with things the way they are, if you don't take a chance then you will never know.
You can always mend your friendship and if she is a good friend then she will understand. Be sure of your feelings before you go into anything though.
In the end it is your choice but remember that life does go on and often it's better (and more fun) to take a chance once in a while!
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reader, crawfy +, writes (8 October 2007):
 look, at your age you go through mny phases, im not a lot older myself. build it up gradually, ie, invite to the cinemea with your friends, then just you. if she likes you then shell do it, if not then maybe youre not right for eachother
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