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writes:i wanna makeout with my boyfriend but i don't know how to let him know. can anyone help me??!! we've been goen out for bout 3 months and we've kiss like little pecks on the lips but i wanna makeout with him and i don't know what to do. like if i should tell him or like give him little signs. UGH! somebody help PLEASE!....!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2008): You present as aged 13-15 (underage) and currently living in the USA. Why do you want to make out with him, how come your in such a hurry. You've only been with him for three months and your in already in a hurry to get to the next stage. Why, what do you think will happen? You want to make out with him, but you don't know what your doing.
What's wrong with the kisses and cuddles you share now? It dosen't seem to bother your boyfriend, he obviously like he's doing already, and he wants to take things slow. You gonna rush him before his ready
I have no information to give you except to say, when the time is right and your both ready this thing will happen naturally. Everything usually falls into place at the right time. Take care of yourself, no reason to rush, you have the rest of your life.
PS: Dizzie is right, making out, especially when your both lying down is dangerous, and can lead to sex, something I doubt your ready for.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2008): dizzie she wants to make out with him not have sex with him
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2008): aww thats cute..just lean in or something make it romantic
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2008): Hey :)
Is there somewhere you could both go to lie down?
Like by a lake or a grassy area?
Once your lying down ,lie on your side to face him,leaning on your elbow,stroke his arm (but make sure its the top half,as stroking down below may make him think you want more than just to make out)
Just make general conversation so that it can take away any awkwardness.
Move the stroking towards his neck slowly ,while still talking,at this point it would probably be best to say something that will make the both of you smile, (he will be concentrating on your lips which will make him want to kiss you even more,so maybe bite your lip in a cute way,this should make him go wild :)
If this doesnt work,tell him that your cold,he will then pull you in closer to keep you warm,put your hand on the side of his face (so that your thumb & index finger are around his ear,then go in for a kiss,& as you are both lying down it would be hard to have a 'little peck' so you'll be having a full blown makeout session! :)
So good luck & have fun! :)
Hope ive helped.
xxxx
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reader, dizzie  +, writes (22 July 2008):
im so sorry to say this but your so young at the moment and the last aunt should have told you like im going to, not to rush into it your a child and what your going to give away (your body) is so precious. you are posted at 13 to 15 years old thats way to young mate. believe me when i say that, i dont mean to scare you or anything like that but you have a greater risk of cervical cancer, pregnancy, stds, aids,than most of us adults. please dont put yourself through this, he wont respect you any more in fact he will brag to his mates and you will be branded loose for a long time. please think about it before you rush in to this. obviously he is happy the way things are going or he would have pushed you for the intamacy part but he hasnt please listen to me i know what im talking about dont do it. keep it at the cuddling stage and dont risk things. you will no when the time is right and believe me its not right yet. if the time was right you would not be on here asking for advise. sorry to disappoint you hun but you get the thumbs down on this one from me no way should you do it . and if you decide to do it anyway make sure that he wears something on the end of it ok. babies aint as cute as you think they keep you up all night and you cant have a life with your mates cuz you have to stay in changing nappies think about it ok
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reader, somerandomdude9999 +, writes (22 July 2008):
 Trust me he does to the easiest way is to watch a romantic movie or go to dinner sit next to him and kinda just let it happen. GO FOR IT!
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