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*ois-mcphee
writes:hi well here goes...i am 16 years old and a few weeks back i met a really genuine guy. hes 26 and seems like a great fun loving guy, he has a great job as a teacher down in lincolnshire, we chat all the time well when hes not out down the pub trying to find a woman, he seems so lonely when we speak and says he just wants someone to be happy with and some company, he is a good looking guy really good looking. ere are a few details about him. hes just qualified as a maths teacher at a lincolnshire school,hes 26 years old, hes tall,good looking and has agreat sense of humour hes just like the perfect guy. he goes out all the tim trying to find a woman, he will just sit on hes own whilst in the pub and drink alone as he hasnt got many friends as hes moved to lincolnshire from yorkshie so hees the question..is there any mid 20s early 30s women out there that cn tell me were this guy is goin wrong hes been trying to get a woman for 5 months now and nothing s working ... can give me ny tips on how to make him interact with people more ..and find himself a nice woman to be with, i just wanna see him happy Reply to this Question
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reader, x..BabyGirl..x +, writes (19 August 2008):
 Steer clear. For your safety, please stay AWAY from him. He's 26. Please don't meet him. You might think you know him but you don't know what's going on in his mind.
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reader, lois-mcphee +, writes (19 August 2008):
lois-mcphee is verified as being by the original poster of the question HI THANKS FOR ALL THE ADVICE BUT I DONT NEED IT APARENTLYY IT WAS AL JUST A HUGE HINT FOR ME TO MEET HIM FOR A DRINK THE EMAILS ARE BELOW....
Rob says:
what question is that from?
StErEoPhOnIcS wAs aCe! says:
ERR ONE I ROTE
StErEoPhOnIcS wAs aCe! says:
I want to help this guy find a woman to date and be happy!
Rob says:
what did u write that for?
StErEoPhOnIcS wAs aCe! says:
FOR ADVICE
StErEoPhOnIcS wAs aCe! says:
I WROTE THAT TO HELP U FIND A NICE WOMAN TO DATE AND BE HAPPY WITH
Rob says:
you dont need advice and neither do i
StErEoPhOnIcS wAs aCe! says:
I DONT
Rob says:
you wanted to make me happy you could have just met me for a drink
StErEoPhOnIcS wAs aCe! says:
I WANT TO SEE U WITH SUM-1 THAT WILL ACTUALLY MKE U HAPPY THOUGH
StErEoPhOnIcS wAs aCe! says:
I WONT
Rob says:
well your doing a good job of not making me happy thats for sure
StErEoPhOnIcS wAs aCe! says:
THEN IF U MEET THIS PERSON MAYBE YOULL GET HAPPLY MARRIED AND HAVE A FAMILY
Rob says:
jesus christ
StErEoPhOnIcS wAs aCe! says:
WAT?
Rob says:
forget it
StErEoPhOnIcS wAs aCe! says:
DO U WANNA BE HAPPY OR NOT?
Rob says:
you posting a problem on dearcupid is not gonna make me happy- if you wanted to cheer me up you could have just met up with me for a drink, but your imaginary park plans got in the way of that
Rob says:
just dont worry about me, ill be fine
StErEoPhOnIcS wAs aCe! says:
IMAGINARY
StErEoPhOnIcS wAs aCe! says:
???
StErEoPhOnIcS wAs aCe! says:
LISTEN IF I DIDN WANT TO MEET YOU THEN ID JUST SAY
Rob says:
well i wish youd just say so i can move on
StErEoPhOnIcS wAs aCe! says:
I DO WANT TO BUT YOU WONT BE HAPPY WITH ME I JUST KNOW U WONT BE
Rob says:
well i'd be a hell of a lot more happy than i am now
Rob says:
thats for sure
StErEoPhOnIcS wAs aCe! says:
YEAH BUT IF U MET SUM-1 CLOSER TO HOME THEN YOU COULD SEE THEM EVERYDAY PROBABLY WEREAS WITH ME THAT WOULD BE A DIFFEREN STORY
Rob says:
its not like ur hundreds of miles away! ur like an hour away
StErEoPhOnIcS wAs aCe! says:
WHICH IS BAD
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reader, lois-mcphee +, writes (18 August 2008):
lois-mcphee is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey thanks fro the ppl below who ommented our advice was great u at the bottom n u below this answer id just like to say that this guy is confident well i say that he talks well over msn an texting but whilst on the phone this guy is very shy and i feel he needs help tryna boost this as well any comments welcome!!
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reader, x..BabyGirl..x +, writes (18 August 2008):
I think he needs to stop going to the pub first of all. He needs to find some friends down there and maybe go clubbing with them. At the pub he's more likely to find someone twice his age.
Or he could go to teachers meetings with other schools. My year 4 teacher went to one of those and met her husband whom she's been married to for over 10 years and they've got a son.
But most girls like to be approached so he's gunna need to get some confidence and see how it goes.
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