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writes:hey guys hmmm how do i start this.... well i know this might sound wussy so here goes there is this girl who lives across my house who looks beautiful i have been seeing her around the village a couple of times and talked to her once i think and from that conversation she seems kind and sweet(i think). well here is the thing i want to get to know her more because i think i might like her or just have like an admiration of her and i want to find out how i feel, so i would like to know tips on how i can like start a conversation with her, you know talk to her and probably be able to hang out with her stuff like that, so help please... Reply to this Question |
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reader, thenotsogreat + ♥, writes (3 November 2009):
You can use the oldest trick in the book.
Find out where she might go on a daily bases and "just happen to be heading in that direction as well". What a coincodence lol. Theres your opening. Be friendly not forward though
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reader, katyayni + ♥, writes (3 November 2009):
HiYou guys live in the same village, so there must be plenty of opportunities for you two to just bump into each other. Try walking with her... if she is carrying anything... help her carry it. And speak. Listen to her. Keep at least a foot long space between each other so she feels comfortable. And, also your intentions are not interpreted in the wrong way. If you think that you two can actually have a nice conversation, then invite her out when you are hanging with your friends, as a part of the group, provided there are girls in your group. Stay close to her, but not too close. If you cant invite her as a friend, then ask her out to a village festival, or concert or carnival (any occasion) and then talk to her. Listen to what she says and look at her face... not her body.This will give you enough opportunity to know whether you like her or not. Best of Luck
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