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writes: There is a girl I like to ask out when we come back to college, but I want to be a secret admirer for a week or 2 before then, so do you have any tips of how to approach this? Should I leave gifts for her with just saying from secret admirer? Thanks very much. Reply to this Question |
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reader, myteamum +, writes (11 August 2005):
Hi hun, This is a very tricky one but here goes.Firstly do you know how she would react to having notes and gifts left for her and not know who they are from?Ie would it make her excited and feel special or might it scare her a bit.Some girls get a bit nervous especially the way things are in the world today with stalkers and everything.I think that as long as you have a pretty good idea of her personality and there for a guide to how she may react then it is a sweet idea .But remember that you can still do things like this once you have introduced yourself to her it doesn`t just have to be in secret.A woman loves a man who buys her a small gift now and then but don`t go over the top or it may seem like you are trying to buy her attention and affections.I really hope this will help you out a bit.Best of luck to you mate.
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