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writes:how do i get across to my boyfriend i want more sex often and longer,he is a couple years older than me i have told him i want it 2 or 3 times a week he is only good for one round a week. I am in my prime and he want more sex, he is a great guy and spoils me in everyway but not enough sex.. Reply to this Question
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (7 August 2010):
 You have different sex drives.. He is older than you, and therefore it's not unusually that his sex drive is low... often happens to men at this age...
You need to compromise.. he won't be able to give you more penetrative sex, he can't force his penis to work that way. But I suggest you introduce sex toys into the bedroom.. vibrators for you, and maybe more oral sex from him when he dosen't feel up to sexual penetration.
If it dosen't offend, maybe pornography for you to masterbate with, and pornography for him to keep his sexual desires high... you could also work on his diet, a diet rich in minerals and vitamins and less red meat and diary might help him get back his spark.
He is old, and sex drive has decreased, you are in your prime.. compromise, see if you can do other things to satisfy your desire without making him feel useless and inadequate.
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