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anonymous
writes:Heeey, im quite young and have been in a relationship for nearly 5 months, we're both virgins, and i really do want too loose it too him and he wants too with me. Is it bad that i can actually picture a future with him? Getting married? Having kids? Being old together? :/
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reader, youngandrestless  +, writes (3 December 2010):
 actually your not too young for this at all, your at the age where most people start thinking about love and marriage. i commend you on keeping your virginity this long, and him too! thats actually quite rare in this world. i agree with realist, just because you lose your virginity to eachother does not mean you will always be together. but it will create a bond between you that you will always feel. losing your virginit is a big deal and you will ALWAYS remember your first. when my parents starting being sexual ( i know gross but hear me out) it was my dads first time, he will always feel a special bond with my mom because of that, but my dad wasnt my moms first, she loves him but still remembers her first, and will always have to live with that. that is why ppl say wait till marriage but even that isnt a sure thing anymore unfortunately. if this is what you both decide you want to do, go for it! it will bring you closer than ever before, and im happy youve found someone to love.
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reader, The Realist +, writes (2 December 2010):
 Thats not bad at all, from what your age group says you are at the age where those things start to become reality. I hope he feels the same way but I want to be aware of something. If you lose it to him, as bad as it sounds, there is no gaurantee you two will be together forever. I would just hate to see you crushed if he left after that and you didn't know what to do. Sex is something special but virginity isn't the most important thing so what ever you choose to do understand that it may be love filled now but may not always be. My advice is to make sure you remember the love you two have now so that if it does ever end you know that you two gave your virginities out of love and that will always be special.
I wish you two all the best and hope that he's the one you spend the rest of your life with.
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