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I want to ask her out but I don't know how

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Question - (23 June 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 23 June 2008)
A male United States age 18-21, anonymous writes:

Hey everyone!! I (re)met this girl a few days back (I knew her from a convention I went to last year but we didn't really keep in contact) and I wanted to ask her out but I don't know how! I suggested hanging out with her but I don't know if I should offer to go somewhere or what, please help! Any advice is welcome!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2008):

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sofiamorgan, it was an Anime Convention, and thanks

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A female reader, sofiamorgan United Kingdom + , writes (23 June 2008):

sofiamorgan agony auntI know that men are under alot of pressure to go up to girls and start talking to them.

Ask her if she wants to go for a drink/coffee whichever is appropriate! Or maybe ask her if she has seen X movie and would she like to see it with you, then maybe go out to dinner afterwards. You clearly have something in common from the convention that you went to...(what was the convention on? I'm interested!)

Good luck and let us know how it goes!

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A female reader, happiness within United Kingdom +, writes (23 June 2008):

Hey there

I know what you mean it can be difficult to take the first step. From a womans point of view don't be too pushy go for a coffee or maybe even just for a walk in a park on a nice day and then some lunch (I'm sure she will want to eat after walking) Use that time to catch up find out about each other.

The next time you go out will be so much easier because you would have found a neutral ground between you.

Good luck an have fun

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