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writes:Me and my girlfriend recently split up but it was more we went on a break but we can do what we want on this break. im only 18 but i know shes the one for me. thats bold to say but im not jumping around the issue. she is. in the months before we split up i was taking her for granted, hobbies were taking priority and we weren't seeing each other much. far from her telling me this she waited until boiling point and said she needed space and time because she knows she loves me she just needs to be away for a bit. we'v been together for over 2 years, both first loves. it gets better though because there is another boy, he was there for her when i wasnt in a sense but she says she doesnt love him and he could never replace me. i was hesitant about a break obviously because of this fact but my thinking was if i lose her for a bit i can have her forever. im just sacred i dont get her back in a few weeks. i personally think my behaviour was a factor but also that shes worried about us going to different unis next year and living apart and i think shes sacred that i might treat her amazing for a bit, like i did for years then just naturally revert back to how i was for the last month of our relationship. i need her back. i thought about it for ages and its iv never been sure of anything more than the fact that i love her more than anything. any ideas on what i can do? do you think that something like this is just natural since wer both young and never experience other people? have i completely ruined it? or should i give her time and pray she realises how much i mean to her too? i dont want to put my life on hold because i have exams soon but she means that much to me that i pretty much have done?
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reader, Triskaedeka102  +, writes (29 April 2009):
 All I can say is to quote this quote, "If you love someone, let it go; if they come back, they're yours, if they don't, they never were"
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