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16-17,
spoonie
writes: i have gone out with this girl for about a month or two and we realy care about eachother very much but i still think about her and her ex boy friend having sex and what they done when i really shouldnt think about that because its just weird but sometimes thats all i can think of and it makes me sick and upset!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2007): We all have a past and that is where it should be filed in your brain, in the past draw. You can't drag that back or expect her to tell you all about it , that's not fair. Just let it go. One day you will have a past history and you won't want to tell your gf all about that will you. Let it go. Block it out of your brain but the things you two are going to do together.
Take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2007): We all have a past and that is where it should be filed in your brain, in the past draw. You can't drag that back or expect her to tell you all about it , that's not fair. Just let it go. One day you will have a past history and you won't want to tell your gf all about that will you. Let it go. Block it out of your brain but the things you two are going to do together.
Take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2007): Why dont you try talkin to your girlfriend see whats going on if she relly cares about you she'l give you a straight truthful answer and if you relly care about her you should believe her paranoia is the worst thing in a realationship n can drive people away but on the other hand if you dont trust her there is no realationship in a lot of cases if you dont trust someone its normally because you dont trust yourself think about it.
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (4 January 2007):
 i once went through that not so long back im in a 18months ralationship now with a guy 21years older than my self he was with his ex 21years, a few months back all i could think of was them 2 haveing sex. but gradually i realised past is past sod it move on that may happen to you youll learn to deal with it. but for now when you go to think of it change the subject in your mind and go and do something for a while untill it erases out of your mind.
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