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I think my drunk behavior messed up my chances with him.

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Question - (7 November 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 16 November 2012)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So me and this guys been talking for a month and a half, fwb we hang out all the time. We have sex occasionally. So last weekend ingot really really drunk and he picked me up and I hardly remember because I was blacking in and out but I remember him picking me up from a local bar and then we drive somewhere and I opened the door and started throwing up then I started crying hysterically, idk why, I think someone put something in my drink, but anyway he was trying to being me home and I was crying saying no so he brought me to where he picked me up, I remember him saying he is never going to call me after that, but he said that before an he ended up txtn me but it was because of something diffirent. Well I have a feeling he will txt me soon but I just dOnt know. I txt him saying "im sorry about last night I truly don't understand why I was acting that way and I don't remember" and no reply but my sis said when he gets over everything he will probably txt me. I mean we always keep each other good company, maybe I said something bad that Iudont remember I said?? Idk what do u think will he txt within time or no? I never acted like that when I drank with him before the next day my jaw was hurting, my friend said maybe someone put a (maly) ecstasy * in my drink but idk I bought my own drinks an I left them behind when he came

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2012):

I don't drink and im 29 happily married for 5 years my husband is 32 he always talked to me about the past how he used to hang with a lot of drunken girls but never want to date them he just want to have fun, thats from a man point of view I guess

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2012):

You most likely have messed up your chances with this guy by sleeping with him without being in a relationship. I don't know if the drunk night will make a big impact or not.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2012):

I'm guessing he's not mad at you for drinking, puking, etc. He's mad because he's jealous. Tell him you're sorry for getting wasted without him. Tell him you would have rather been drinking with him. See what he says. His response should answer your questions one way or the other.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2012):

"maybe I said something bad that Iudont remember I said??"

Maybe HE did something bad that he's glad you don't remember. If you were already putting out for a guy when you were sober, I can only imagine what he would do to take advantage of you when you were blackout drunk.

You may want to reconsider your recent lifestyle choices of hopping into bed with random strangers, drinking excessively to the point of blacking out, and engaging in both activities simultaneously.

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