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I think my boyfriend and I should be living together to help with expenses... so how do I bring it up?

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Question - (19 May 2005) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 May 2005)
A , *ssdul writes:

My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months and have a great relationship. I am in school and am having a hard time paying for my rent and I might have to move back home. My boyfriend is older and financially stable. How can I let him know that I would love to live with him if he would just ask me? It's not something I can casually bring up...

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A reader, taz +, writes (20 May 2005):

This is a tough situation and i can say i know how you feel. The best thing i found was to sit down and explain that this is how you feel. All he can do is say either yes or no. You might find things get harder on the realationship if you do live together though. But GOOD LUCK

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A reader, shan +, writes (20 May 2005):

You have to talk to him about this, but you cannot use this as a way of coping with finance. It has to be because you love him,not just because you need oney to help you. If that's the case, get a flatmate. You have to think about this good and proper. Anyway, good luck in what you decide.

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