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writes:Hello allOk i have a bit of a problam hear, anyway it involves an ex and we split october last year but have always remained friends,anyway hes now got this new gf whos 5 weeks pregnent with his baby,My problam is that monday just gone he took me and my friend for a drive, but instead of going back to his car took my friend home first, then once she went he said im sorry but have to do this and squeesed my boob then he got his dick out and placed my hand on it, then next think i knew was i was giving him a blowjob, when that had finished went home talking like normal and he went back to herthen today me my mates him, his new gf, and his daughter went out to a local park and they seemed happy but i felt quilty what had happened the other day, but he didnt, and i just looked at him and thought does he not feel uncomfetable that his gf and ex are talking and he not feel awkred as i did. WELL TONITE SOMETHINGS BEEN GOING THROUGHT MY HEAD THAT SHE NEEDS TO BE TOLD INCASE HE DOES IT AGAIN BECAUSE I THINK HE WILL, but i dont want to hurt her, but its eating me with guilt at what i didplease help me im not sure what to doxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2009): yes you want to tell her not for herself but for you. you re feeling guilty that he used you , got a freebee in fact and then just took off to his new gf. i know you have feelings for him but if it makes you feel better then yes tell her. yes, she deserves to know what a bastard he is.
but then you need to ask yourself, will you take him back ? will you continue to give him blowjobs, and for free or will you start to respect yourself a lettle more.
although hi gf is pregnant, she is only 5 weeks, so she can still decide whether she wants to terminate the pregnancy or not. better abort now than have the baby with an unfaithful partner. later on she can meet a faithful someone. in fact both you and his gf deserve better. only thing you both don't realise this. so the sooner you tell her the better. but prepare well........he will blame you and say you are jealous and causing problems.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2009): I know the reason why you allowed him to do it is because you still want him. If you can't stop him from using you and you letting him use you, i think it would be best to leave.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2009): How about you just cease and desist sucking his dick, for starters. Let his gf figure out for herself that he is an ass (and I am sure she will, sooner or later.) But you don't really need to stress her out while she's pregnant by telling her that her baby daddy came onto you and you went along with it. Good luck.
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reader, lola16182  +, writes (31 May 2009):
if you can give a little bit more info?
it sounded kind of like force..but what you did with him, did he make u or did u do it willingly after he had u put your hand..u know where. Either way it is wrong what he did, its disrespectful for his g/f & him telling u you guys had to do this? Nonsense, uhh if this behaviour was unwanted, oh must also ask, did u say No at all? If u did and he kept going or forced u thats sexual assault.
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reader, qnile68  +, writes (31 May 2009):
For starters he is not the only one to blame. "then next think i knew was i was giving him a blowjob". You had a choice to not do anything. But you did. You also didn't mention that you told him not to touch you or anything else. I'm assuming you didn't. Could it be that you want to be with him and only want to tell her so she leaves him? If that is the case, sabataging his current relationship will only make him resent you, not want to be with you. My advice is to be a true friend and not let that happen again, as well as being respectful towards his current girlfriend. And if you do want to be with him, why would you want to be with someone who is seemingly happy in a relationship but still cheats? that just means he'll do it to you too.
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