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writes: Hey aunts, Just wondering I haven't always had a problem with my boyfriends watching porn... but for some reason with this boyfriend that i've been with for 2 years, i do. I just think it's because i'm offended that we never really do it anymore like once a week or somethin? and now i find when he used to not like porn, he watches it! when i found out he got upset and he started just yelling and stuff so i told him not to be ashamed and that it's normal soo yehh.. i dunno.Lately i've been thinking about alot of things i dunno my head has been goin insane! im just a rollercoaster atm. One minute i wanna marry him the next i just wanna move on with life and permenantly leave him behind. I'm so unsurei think he might be bi-polar or spilt personality or somethin! i have noooo idea, he just either really upsets me or makes me the happiest person on earth, so i'm confused if it's because im upset and confused that's making me think two different things or if it's because of him? i dunno. so confused. please help, i dunno what else to do. wb.x
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reader, rcn  +, writes (31 October 2007):
 I think confusion is a possibility. You do understand in order for him to be bi-polar, he has to have the ups and downs, not you.
It's normal to feel the way you do. If he's going to be watching porn, he should be paying some attention to you also. He's not dating a movie, and shouldn't pay more attention to that than he does with who he dates. I'd let him know you're feeling insecure with his ignoring you. It's not right, and you deserve to be treated better.
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