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writes:My partner went on holiday last year with his mates and I was a few months pregnant (we didn't know when he booked It). We'd only been with each other a few months before I got pregnant.When he got back I could tell straight away that something was up as he walked In the room and just held me. I went through his phone that night and found a message from a girl saying when you touched me It sent shivers down my spine (corny I know!!).I confronted him straight away and he denied them and quickly deleted them saying It was In my head... after he realised how ridiculous that sounded he said he panicked coz he thought I'd get the wrong Idea(what a plonker).He said It was a czech girl that worked out there and used to get them In for free and one night she come onto him and he reolised It was going to far and backed of but gave her a cuddle and that's what she ment.I still to this day don't believe him but I love him too much to leave him. If he does anything like that again It will be over but I think about It every day more or less.
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reader, aims007 +, writes (29 June 2009):
aims007 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks everyone x
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2009): Hi.......i think you need to sit down with your boyfriend and explain how you feel. Tell him that you still think about it every day but also that you love him and just finally want to know the truth. If you have decided you wont leave, then tell him that too to reassure him. Say you dont want anything to come back and haunt you in the years ahead, you just want to draw a line but need the truth to do that. He may take a few days to come clean and if he doesnt then i dont suppose there is much you can do, other than try to forget... and take him at his word. Take care and good luck!
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reader, aims007 +, writes (28 June 2009):
aims007 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks babe x
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reader, Emjo +, writes (28 June 2009):
 Maybe you need to confront him again about it, other wise it's just going to build up inside you and your going to start resenting him. You have no real proof so i wouldn't leave him because of it just incase he is telling the truth, maybe talk to him about it and it will give you some reassurance... i guess that depends on how easy he is to talk to though...Honestly, if your instinct tells you he's lying the chances are your probably right (sorry to be the bringer of bad news) as generaly we know people and can see through fake fronts they put on...I hope it all works out okay for youLove em x
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