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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I broke up with my boyfriend a few years ago in a panic even though I was still in love with him. He was nice about it and moved on. He's been dating this girl who used to be my good friend for over a year now and I'm still in love with him. I tried to move on and thought I did, but I know now after a few years that I still love him. I also know for a fact that he totally loves me as a person and has nothing bad to say about me. I hadn't talked to him in a while, but we both want to be friends again. And I know we've probably both changed over the years, but I still am sure I love him... How can I make the transition from being his friend to being his girlfriend again? The girl who is with him is absolutely sweet and there's nothing bad about her, but I feel like we were meant to be. She takes him for granted and hasn't always treated him well, but in general, she's a very sweet girl. He and I both live on different sides of the country but talk on the phone often. (His girlfriend also lives long distance too, so it's not like he'd be afraid of distance.) So how can I win him back?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2008): Leave it be......Why would you break up with him in the first place when you are still in love with him?? You didn't treat him very well either by doing this. If you want him back ask him. What else can he say "NO" it's one word that could crash your dreams or make it come true...
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