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writes: i have a boyfriend and we started out bestfrinds for ova 7 months before we confessed out love to eachother and desided to make this to what it is now, the problem is that we was keepin our relationship secret because we have a business relationship as well. there was a female talkin to me about my man and since she didnt realize he was i had to tell her, when i was asked if i tol her about us i lied to protect myself and our realtionship, i have lied to the only man that has even been there for me and now he wants to know what i can do to help him in da process to let him trust me again i am lost cause i have neva lied to him bout nything, how do i convince him that he can trust me again? Reply to this Question
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reader, Kated101 +, writes (22 January 2006):
To be brutally honest I think he's being a bit of an idiot. Has you telling the girl acctually done any harm? If not why is he so concerned that you told her?
I don't think you've done anything wrong at all, he can't of expected you to sit back and listen to some girl talk about your man and not say anything can he?
I think he's being incredibly unfair and you should tell him so. Unless this situation has caused any great dilema then he has no right to say he "cant trust you" anymore, and thats a hurtfull thing to say. Im sure you've told him you're sorry and thats all (and probably more) than you have to do. Sorry if this wasnt what you wanted to hear but it made me a big angry to read!
Don't be afraid to lose him by telling him he's being unfair because if he would leave you over something like that he's not worth having in the first place.
No man is worth your tears and the only one who is will never make you cry.
I hope I've helped, even a tiny bit. Best Wishes x K x
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