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writes:Ok my problem is this, I started talking to a friend of a friend a while ago and me and her get on great, laugh about the same things and just connect never a problem making conversation etc anyway she`s a bit big though which I know shouldnt be a problem but I work in a night club on security and when someone saw me with her once it was all who was that girl you were with looked big etc, I know this is making me sound like a dick but I dont want to go with her if I feel ashamed because that wouldnt be fair on her, what should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, LilPixie +, writes (19 November 2009):
 Too right this is making you sound like a dick! If you cared about her and really wanted to be with her you wouldn't care what anyone else thinks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2009): I think you should sort yourself out and stop judging people on such meaningless criteria such as weight. If you care more about what other people think of you than your relationship with this girl, then I a) feel sorry for you and b) hope one day you realise that you've gotta do your own thing in life and sod what everyone else thinks. Really unimpressed with the last person's answer too. Honestly, what's more important? Friendship and laughs and getting on with people you life - or what others think about you? Common... as if you should even have to think about that.
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