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writes: im only 15 and im starting to look at girls in a not so friendly way i still like guys i just dont know what to do can any one give me advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, kt  +, writes (2 May 2006):
 its normal!! i read up on this and it say that everyone at this age looks at the same sex in an intimate way at at least one time in your teenage life, because its at this time when you satrt to become sexually aware. so your mind will natually look at both sexes to experiment and find out what, well, turns you on.
if you find out that your feelings for females deepen, dont worrie! there are loads of people out there exactly the same, but be carefull who you tell.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2006): jus because u are checkin out girls it doesnt mean that u are a lesbian. You're 15 so u are curious and have a lot of feelings.Its ok to think a girl has a nice body or sometimes ppl compare theirselves to others but u shouldnt do that cause everyone is different, but i wouldnt worry about lookin at girls its perfectly normal i've had the same thoughts myself but i know i am straight. Dont think of it as "is something wrong w/ me", but just as exploring ur sexuality. Just keep the looks to yourself unless it really gets out of hand. I mean u dont have to act on these thoughts like many straight girls seem to do these days, so if u feel like its a lil too much then try focusing ur attention to guy instead.
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