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I missed my opportunity to get physical with her.

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Question - (18 November 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 21 November 2007)
A male Canada age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have a friend who I believe is extremely hot and I have told her how attractive I think she is. This week I came by her house. After ringing the bell she came to the door and opened it a crack. After she saw it was me she asked me to come in. When I entered I then noticed that she just came out of the shower and was wrapped in a single towel. This towel did not completely cover her up. It left much to my view. I think that she was allowing me to see her in this state instead of asking me to return after she dressed. I enjoyed her natural beauty and smell. We just talked and then about twenty or thirty minutes later she went back and put on more clothing. Thinking back she must have been sending a message by just remaining wrapped in a towel for such a long time. I have wanted to be connected to her sexually but for some reason I did not do anything. Do you think I missed my opportunity to be more physical with her?

Is there something I can do to have this chance again? Or do I just have to be lucky?

If I have a chance to see her just wrapped in a towel again do you think I should walk up to her and wrap my arms around her and give her a French kiss? Perhaps then next I should tell how hot she is and try to unwrap the towel around her body. What do you think of this idea?

How can I make sex spontaneous?

Thank you in advance for your reply.

Cheers,

Eric Johnson

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2007):

if you are ever in a situation like that again...here is my suggestion...lean over toward 90 percent and ask would you like to kiss me then she will probably advance the remaining 10 percent and kiss you. if that happens all wheels are in motion.

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A female reader, pgissyd United Kingdom +, writes (18 November 2007):

pgissyd agony auntOdly enough she may just feel comfortable enough with you that she feels she doesnt have to worry if she is dressed or not.

Try some gentle flirting techniques, hand on her arm when talking, lots of eye contact and so on. You could always plunge in and tell her how you feel. Women ate when guys play mind games, we always wonder at the complexity of men, why didnt he just say if e liked me? and so on. just tell her, or if your shy then ask her how she sees you. tell her to be truthfull. keep eye contact with her at all times, if she blushes or looks away while telling you she thinks your a great friend then Id say she fancies you. but if she keeps eye contact whie saying your a great friend then she is being honest. Women are just a s complicated as men, but they are easier to read ;D

take care and good luck xx

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2007):

How about you just tell said girl how you feel?

But make sure she realises that if she ain't interested you aren't gonna let the friendship suffer.

Seriously, if she's interested go for it. If not, just suck it up an soldier on.

Flynn 24

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