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writes:I miss my ex. Am I just lonely? I'm spending a lot of time with my friends but no number of them could ever fill that particular void deep down inside where their love and care can't reach.So that "last inch" of void...do you eventually harden up and let that void shrivel up so that you don't feel it anymore and feel comfortable being single.or does it simply remain there until someone else fills it for you?The first doesn't sound very appealing. Sound much more a like a neglect of your human state; a psychological denial as a defense to the mental drain that is a relationship. A little death if you will. A veneer of "confidence" in "strong" and "independent" solitude when you know full well that you are most fufilled and develop the most when you are in meaningful relationship and feeding that last inch.The second is no better. Hunger drives the fulfilment of the need. Your perception is so clouded by famine (I'm exagerating a weeeeee bit here) that you accept more invitations to fill that last inch than you would have otherwise.What to do? Life experiences would be very much appreciated.
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