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writes: My girlfriend and I have been together for the last three years. She left her job and her family to be closer to me even though I never gave her any promise of a future together. Over this past year I haven't given her any affection and have always made her last on my list of priorities (because I thought I wasn't ready for a serious relationship), and we've broken up/gotten back together many times. Two weeks ago I realized that I wanted her to be with me for the rest of my life and I was about to propose when she said she couldn't wait for my affection anymore and she was going on a date with another guy. Since then I've told her everything and she stopped seeing this other guy but she says she is afraid to trust me with her heart again... what should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2006): All you can do is keep proving it to her over and over again do things to surprise her show her your all she thinks about even on a ruff day she comes first! Leave her little thoughtful notes in her purse go out of your way for her It's good you realized before it was too late cause you were being selfish and I'm sure she really loves you if she stopped seeing that other guy just next time if your not sure of yourself tell her and talk about it so she has some type of clue I'm sure she will trust again she just needs to see that you will think of her more and show her you want to be with her Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2006): stop talking, start doing. and keep doing. SHOW HER how important she is to you, every day. she won't trust you at first, and she shouldn't. but if you keep at it, eventually she will. if she means that much to you, it'll be worth it.
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reader, Jordan +, writes (20 January 2006):
 Man jus talk to her and if y'all have been together for three years then i think it's time u showed some affection! if you didn't want a serious relationship you should've broke it off after three months but now you finally came to your senses maybe you'll be able to give affection cause now u knoe she will walk out if you don't.Jordan
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reader, mister-squid +, writes (20 January 2006):
 Make good on what you said, that's all I have to suggest.
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