| A
female
,
cupid helper
writes: dear cupid my ex is now with someone else i still luv him n e still luvs me he finished with me cause of my probs with relationships (thats why i am on here to sort it out)i chat to his bst m8 a lot and she helps me she no's him reli reli well. i started this 2 help my relationship with the one i luv but then he finished it cause i have done loads of stuff wrong (lied, cheated,..e.g)she has told me for a fact dat me and da 1 i luv will get back together and i reli reli trust her cause she is neva wrong when it comes to him.she has been rite so many times be for. i just want to get my problem sorted so then i can get back with him. i luv him sooooooo much and no one understands that
View related questions:
broke up, get back together, my ex Reply to this Question |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, helpful girl  +, writes (10 August 2006):
 i understand what its like to love some one as much as you do. you should try talking to him and as i myself have resently done this i found it to help. tell him you still love him and that if he really thinks anything of his new g,friend at all if the answer is no then say why dont we give another go? and cut our days down we see each other say 3 times a week that way your miss each other when your not round each other then next time seeing each other your both appreciate it more. if he decides to give it ago then please do not change the days and make it more days cus then you go back to square one again, if he doesnt want to give it ago then there is possibly nothing else i can suggest other than move on no matter how much it hurts you cant force him to want to know you again.
A
reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2006): It sounds like some good counselling with someone qualified can be of better help then prowling around on here.
You need your trust issues dealt with as long as discovering why you feel the need to lie and cheat on someone you love; this isn't healthy or good.
To work on what needs to be fixed you will need to figure out what is "broken".
A personal counsellor can also be there to cheer you on as well as point you to a better way of living.
When a heart truly desires change; changing for the better will come to pass.
Best of wishes Sweetie.
*hugs*
...............................
|
