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writes:i met a guy over a year ago and he was smitten over me. i did not responed in the same way as i felt that he just wanted a hook-up. we have become very good friends since then. he still persued me for a number of months but i still did not responed in the way he wanted. to everyone else my reason was that i was too scared to lose him as a friend, but my real reason was that i was scared of the way he made me feel, as i was too scared i would lose him forever if it did not work out. now he is in a relationship, but when ever we see eachother i can still feel the connection between us. i seem to think about him all the time and afraid that i have lost my chance. how can i get over him and still not lose him from my life? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2012): You don't really want this guy and that's the TRUTH. You probably see him more so as a friend and now that he is with someone else, and isn't pursuing you anymore, you may have feelings of jealousy. IF this guy gave you a chance, you would probably get bored with him and regret ever giving him a "chance." Please leave him alone and find someone else to date and/or be in a relationship with. You didn't want him then (which is fine), but don't try to get in between his current relationship.
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