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I just want to be attracted to girls but sometimes I find guys attractive

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Question - (21 October 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 October 2011)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I believe that I'm straight, but sometimes I have terrifying gay thoughts. I'm very attracted to girls, I never been attracted to another guy. When I have these thoughts it makes me stressed, anxious, and have head aches. Gay people freak me out, and I just want to be straight. Are these thoughts normal? I really just want to be attracted to girls, sometimes I think another guy is handsome or something. Do you think I'm becoming bisexual?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2011):

I think it's normal for a guy to appreciate how another male looks appearance-wise. You hear girls saying how some other girl is cute, or pretty, or whatever. Does that automatically make the girl a lesbian? No.

You need to relax.

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A female reader, Moo's Mum New Zealand +, writes (22 October 2011):

Moo's Mum agony auntWhy do gay people freak you out? Gay people are just people trying to plod their way through life the best way they can just like a straight person. It would be good for you to examine why you feel this way about gay people and start living your life unafraid of which path you end up taking with your love life.

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