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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have been dumped. No explanation. I am alright as I didnt want the relationship anymore that much. Maybe he knew that but what I think about alot is has he lied? When he said I was someone he cared alot about. When he would look at me like he liked me very much. When he would tell me he was really happy to see me and when he told me I was lovely.I want to speak to him to his face and tell him Im angry and think he has lied about all of this and a few other things. I dont care why he ended it just that he is full of B.S maybeDo I have a right to say my side in this and tell him Im angry?I recently, just before this one, had an abusive relationship and it will take me forever to stop being negative about myself now unless I gain some control. Reply to this Question
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (25 April 2011):
 First thing I'd do is get to the dr's and get blood testing done.A lot of guys find things out and don't want to share, so they just walk. That done, I wouldn't have one single word for him ever, never, not one. I'd be too damned busy with my friends, dinners, parties, house work, painting, hobbies, to even have time for guys like this. I'd think of him like bad service I got in a dept store shopping for shoes or something. Who needs such bad service, write him off as one of the places you'll never shop at again. Find a new shopping center and buy a new pair of shoes while your at it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2011): Spill the feelings. If he has the right to express himself in dumping you and making you feel crap you have the right to do the same.
All is fair in love and war.
I was in a relationship once. The girl dumped me over the phone. Reson: wnat to try out people she hase an intrest in, in the crowd... Haha Sometimes no reason is fine but you have the right to confront . No dought
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