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writes: I'm married 16 years and have a 9 year old son. My anxiety is that I've never loved my wife properly, yet always anxious to please, desperately am trying to make it all work out happily in the end. I'm exhausted, but sick with fear of the trauma that would follow a breakdown. After 16 years there is love of a kind. Is this enough to save us?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2006): I have the same problem as well. I believe that I have giving more to the past 10 year´s of marriage that I am tired of it. I have a fear of leaving my husband. But I don´t know how to tell him in a way that I will not hurt him! Try to talk to your wife and maybe both can change to try for a bright future. Good Luck!
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reader, tux  +, writes (3 April 2006):
 You need to talk to your wife. Chances are you might just be pleasing her happily and you are just having insecurity that you are not. But without reasons to why you feel this way is hard to tell. What makes you think this way?
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