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writes:Hey everyone so I think im going a little crazy. I had a dream last night and usually I dont really take dreams seriously. But this dream was different. I dreamed that my family and I went on vacation to a different country. The beginning of my dream started out bad but then in the middle of it i met this guy and its like he made the bad parts of the dream better. In my dream he kissed me and it felt so real. I cant explain it. I kept seeming him in my dream over and when i woke up i felt very sad and disappointed because it wasnt real. I do have a boyfriend that ive been with for a year and when I woke I felt like I didnt wanna be with him like i felt like I love someone else. I cant stop thinking about the guy in my dream and I cant stop thinking about how bad I want this dream to come true. I remember what the guy looked like and everything I feel like im going insane. Any ideas on what this dream can mean Reply to this Question
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reader, Gauntlet  +, writes (20 March 2014):
 Here is something that reminds me the movie "Passion of Mind" with Demi Moore (cf: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Passion_of_Mind ) where a woman lives two lives, one awaken, one when she is dreaming. Problem: which life is the real one ?
In your case that being said, I would speculate that this event just makes appear you lost any interest in your boyfriend. Often our dreams are a way for our subconsciousness to communicate with our consciousness (because most humans just can't live in the "hard" reality, and they tend to lie to themselves non-stop).
To sum up it's probably sign you'd better break up. Hard for your bf to be "fired" by a non-existent guy though.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2014): I dreamt about being in bed with Billy Connolly last night but I'm sure it doesn't mean a thing. (I was in a cold sweat when I woke up!) he he.. sometimes dreams can have a deeper meaning and can indeed be prophetic.... I have had some very powerful dreams which stuck in my head and actually took place months down the line, but if I were you, I wouldn't read toooooooo much into this and unless you are feeling desperately unhappy with your man, forget about it.
And you will with time. Unless of course months down the line ... you never know. But just get on with life in this dimension of physical reality, go with the flow and enjoy your real-life partnership.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2014): I don't think it means anything more than you feel there's something missing. I think the fact that you woke up not wanting to be with your boyfriend says it all though.
Probably time to walk away if a mere dream is enough for you to question being with him.
I mean can you imagine what that would be like the other way around? He had a dream about shagging a super model and all of a sudden you're no longer enough for him? Mad isn't it?
Yeah probably best to reconsider whether he's the man for you. Fantasy is one thing, OP, we all have those and sometimes we imagine other people in those, but fantasy is just fantasy, for you fantasy makes you sad that you don't have that.
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